Once we are born and experiencing our lives here, we rarely think about how to get back out of here or what

happens to us when we do.  Since the majority of us have no recollection of the planning of our lives, we have little understanding of the process of birth and death, also called “getting out of here”.  We all have to do it and it scares the silly out of most of the population…especially in modern society.

Here in the West, the USA to be more specific, we don’t do well with the dying process.  We have moved gradually to cremation of the body but we still are pretty clumsy with the whole process.  We give the grieving about 30 days of attention and then they are on their own.  It’s almost like a clock with perfect time.  A great rush of attention to the grieving, flowers, food, …